Just because I'm attracted to you, or just because we went twelve rounds at some point in time, does NOT mean I expect to grapple with you everytime we get together!
If it happens, great! Awesome! Huzzah! Let's do it again sometime!
But it doesn't necessarily have to be the very next time we meet. Or the time after that. When I say I want to hang out, that's what I mean. Let's hang out. Sex is optional. There's no double entendre. No hidden meaning or ulterior motive.
Do I wanna jump your bones? Probably! But I don't have to. I won't be dissappointed and cut off all contact with you just because you don't want to.
We now return you to your regularly scheduled friends list.